Start Long after dating first kiss

Long after dating first kiss

It’s not as if you hoping to “chat” with someone and end it there.

In general, my rule is an invitation to meet should come by the third email you send.

Other times, people are just reluctant to meet you because they are still trying to decide if they like you.

After a while, any of these cases is a waste of your time.

One common reason to delay a first date is due to an attempt to learn more about the other person. I found the first few minutes of the first date are worth more than dozens of emails.

Another reason to delay would be if the person you are communicating with has expressed extreme reservations about meeting people from the internet.

If this happens to you, wait a few days (continuing the email conversations) and then ask again.

Unless a good reason is give for not meeting, I would not ask more than three times – there are some people out there who are looking to make online friends or live fantasies out in their head without any intention of actually meeting.

On my first date with my wife, I schedule a one hour date at a diner.