And although they say they like a nice guy, they always seemed to end up with one of the “bad boys.” Happily I found out from my pickup journey that it’s not looks or being a “bad boy” that attract women. Even if you’re not tall or the best looking guy or superrich or whatever, if you’ve got these 5 traits, you’ll turn her on… Okay, so after you open a set, the objective is to systematically trigger these attraction switches. At base we humans want two basic things: to survive and to replicate.