Start Dating a man 12 years older

Dating a man 12 years older

It can be more challenging to meet older guys, who are unlikely to hang out in the same venues frequented by the post-college crowd.

The reality is that many men date multiple women for the same reasons women date a lot of men.

They are looking for “the one.” A lot of these perceived players are simply playing the numbers game, hoping to find that special someone as quickly as possible so that they don’t have to endlessly date anymore.

They tend to wonder why such a “great catch” is still on the market. Is he a reformed player who’s trying to hop off the carousel and find a good girl to marry?

Listening recently to a woman describe relationship woes with a man ten years older than she is, I noticed her friends were quick to say, “That’s why he’s 32 and single.” That seems awfully harsh to me – 30 is the median marriage age for college educated women.

a dearth of relationship-minded men, so those who want to fall in love and have a serious relationship often look to graduation as the time when things will improve as traditional dating reappears.

They hope they can leave hookup culture behind with the extra-long twin sheets and grungy shower flip-flops. Their same-age male peers are potentially more interested in relationships, now that they’re the younguns again (which means fewer options).3.

All in all, I recommend that women in their early to mid 20s focus their efforts on men in the 25-35 range.