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In other words, they are the opposite of scarce and hard to earn.

Bring someone flowers or cook them dinner and they love you forever... I learned firsthand that such nice behavior didn't work. The first step to seeing this clearly is to temporarily put aside any frustration and bitterness.

In contrast, when they perform a behavior and are punished, they tend to shy away from that behavior in the future. Well, nice people tend to treat their dates and mates very well. The nice person often "thinks" that such good treatment will one day be recognized.

That it will snap the partner out of their bad behavior. But, they fail to recognize what they are TEACHING their partner by treating them well under all conditions.

By making themselves available to a partner and removing inconveniences, they hope to make love easier.